Big Booby Girls RAWKIN’!

My club bizness partner Barbie is not only one of the great, great dancers in SL, she’s also a musician. And she’s crazy fun. She’s been saying for weeks that we need a band at Miss Barbie’s Big Booby Club and I truly did not know what the hell she meant.

I found out last night. We set up a stage, with amps and mics and drums and an organ…got a nice dance area, complete with a good dance ball. And then we it UP! That’s Barbie11us Axel in the shades and jeans on the left on her hot lead guitar, the awesome emilybee Baxton on the drums, Minka Pearl on the keyboards and moi on rhythm guitar.

We’ll be rockin’ at Miss Barbie’s regularly…I’ll put up a schedule soon…lots of laughs and dancing girls and friends.

Drop on by!

They said it…

From Tenyene Beaumont: “Breasts, regardless of size, are only as attractive as the person they are attached to.”

Interview With Bunny: Hot, New Booby Girl!

I spent a little time last week talking to Bunny Gracemount, a nice young lady who recently joined SL and has embraced the big booby community totally. She’s cute, smart, and very hot! She’s now one of the top dancers at Miss Barbie’s Big Booby Club

Bunny was, and is extremely young on SL, BUT she did the right things very early on: a good shape, good skin, and nice hair. She looks great and, while these pics are recent, even since then she’s continually upgraded her appearance.

I thought her insights might be interesting to all of us…

Cindy Melgund: When did you join SL?

Bunny Gracemount: About a week ago

Cindy Melgund: OK, never been here before that?

Bunny Gracemount: No, never

Cindy Melgund: what interested you in trying it out?

Bunny Gracemount: I’d heard about it in so many places… read stories about it. I remember seeing it on “The Office” LOL. I just thought… it might be interesting

Cindy Melgund: Oh the one with the second life in second life?

Bunny Gracemount: Yes, that one!

Cindy Melgund: That all makes sense now,doesn’t it?

Bunny Gracemount: It does, yes

Cindy Melgund: So what were first days like?

Bunny Gracemount: Scary and exciting. I don’t think I had any idea it was so big… and so.. just so you could go anywhere and do anything. And also, a lot to learn. I spent a lot of time with giant boxes on my head, let me tell you that! So even with all the places to go, and all the people… it felt sort of lonely

Cindy Melgund: so how did you find Barbies?

Bunny Gracemount: Well, I was wandering around a lot… just trying to go where people were? And a lot of times I was made to feel like I was interrupting. Bunny Gracemount: I think I saw a picture of Barbie? Or in a search? Anyway… I just decided to see what it was. Bunny Gracemount: I’m so glad I did

Cindy Melgund: How come?

Bunny Gracemount: When I first walked in, the place looked so nice and welcoming… and then right away, you and Barbie saw that I was new and asked me if I had any questions. That made me feel so terrific

Cindy Melgund: awww

Bunny Gracemount: I was probably a day away from quitting if I hadn’t found this place

Cindy Melgund: So, I assume you hadn’t met any big booby girls before?

Bunny Gracemount: No, I hadn’t! One guy who I met wandering around said to me “You need bigger tits if you wanna make any money around here. Bunny Gracemount: I thought he was teasing me. 🙂 I didn’t even know there were big booby girls here.

Cindy Melgund: haha, well that guy was full of it, but ok

Bunny Gracemount: And I know this will sound funny.. but after I got over how amazing you guys looked… I sort of didn’t even think of you guys as big booby girls. I just thought of you as wonderful people who I was so happy to be around.
Of course, then you guys started chanting “make over!” and that was it for me!

Cindy Melgund: hahahaha

Cindy Melgund: So what did you think when you first tried your implants?

Bunny Gracemount: Oh my god… can I make a confession?

Cindy Melgund: of course!

Cindy Melgund: This is for our community

Bunny Gracemount: In RL… the size zero boobs here are way bigger than me.

Cindy Melgund: yeah, me too!

Bunny Gracemount: So when Barbie bought me them and told me to put them on… at first I was like, “well, i don’t know if this is for me”… but then…. I loved them. Bunny Gracemount: I really do.

Cindy Melgund: yeah

Bunny Gracemount: I mean, isn’t that what SL is supposed to be about? A whole second life?

Cindy Melgund: that’s right!

Bunny Gracemount: I love being a big booby girl. I absolutely love it. Even just saying that.. is making me smile

Cindy Melgund: yeah, it’s interesting, when I first showed Whimsy, my love…I was scared

Bunny Gracemount: Where you here a long time before you got your boobs?

Cindy Melgund: ummm mebbe like two months?

Bunny Gracemount: Oh, cool. For me.. I was alone. I didn’t have a place to go… or an identity. And you guys took me in and did all this great stuff for me…I was honored.

Cindy Melgund: We believe in you

Bunny Gracemount: You’re going to make me cry. Seriously.

Cindy Melgund: What was the biggest challenge when you committed to big boobs

Bunny Gracemount: well… i’d only been here a week, so since I had no money my shopping was basically window shopping. LOL

Cindy Melgund: right!

Bunny Gracemount: But the challenge was when I got these… I realized there were no clothes that would fit… especially nothing free.

Cindy Melgund: right, that’s right

Bunny Gracemount: And my favorite price when I got here was “free 99” LOL

Bunny Gracemount: So I was lucky you guys were generous. because even now, I only have a few outfits… and all the free stuff I took I can’t use

Bunny Gracemount: The other thing I noticed is that people would make fun of them …girls mostly.

Cindy Melgund: Always women

Bunny Gracemount: I can see why some people don’t wear them all the time.

Cindy Melgund: I do…I don’t give a shit

Bunny Gracemount: But you know what? This is my second life… they aren’t clothing. They’re part of me now… forever.
I’m never taking them off.

Cindy Melgund: yeah, me too…and I have ways to respond to assholes

Bunny Gracemount: I am a big booby girl, and I love it

Cindy Melgund: that’s right!

Bunny Gracemount: Hee hee, look at me now. 🙂

Cindy Melgund: hahaha

Bunny Gracemount: This outfit doesn’t look great when you go really big… that’s what Im finding.

Bunny Gracemount: They need good designers to make things for us.

Cindy Melgund: well like I said, I normally stay around 1800 to 2050 off stage

Bunny Gracemount: Yes, you both told me that so I’ve been around there too.

Bunny Gracemount: You guys are like the Big Booby Jedi masters… and I’m the … whatever the word is for the Jedi student.

Cindy Melgund: read my blog and you’ll find things there about building tops and you can also make tops with the HUD

Bunny Gracemount: I did .. but I think I’m not quite comfortable with all the things here yet. But I want to be

Cindy Melgund: Takes a while but do try you “normal” outfits…and see if you can make a top you like with the HUD.There are like 14 stock tops in there.

Cindy Melgund: So, what are you early aspirations as a dancer?

Bunny Gracemount: Well.. mostly not to bump into people on the stage.. especially as I get used to my new size

Bunny Gracemount: But seriously… to have fun.. and to be an asset to you and Barbie and the club. And also… you know.. this girl loves to shop. So I hope I can make some money. I’d like to get an apartment at some point. That seems like a nice thing to do.

Cindy Melgund: do you have a place to change now?

Bunny Gracemount: No.. I mean, I still have nowhere.

Cindy Melgund: ok well you can use here of course….but I have an LM to nice place that’s free. I used that place for a few months before I was ready for my own place. Changing areas, nice girls

Bunny Gracemount: Hee he

Cindy Melgund: ok now is it ok if I say your from the east coast in story?

Bunny Gracemount: Oh sure

Cindy Melgund: and that you’re 32?

Bunny Gracemount: Yes, fine with me

Bunny Gracemount: But also… I’m 8 days old… or whatever it is now.. and that’s what matters. And where am I from? Barbie’s.

Cindy Melgund: Yeah you doing better than I did!

Bunny Gracemount: Only doing better because of you and Barbie… you’re like my older sisters!

Cindy Melgund: what you mean “older”?

Bunny Gracemount: Hee hee

Bunny Gracemount: Oh can I say one more thing?

Cindy Melgund: Absolutely

Bunny Gracemount: The way you and Barbie are so generous with me… if I ever become successful here I’m going to make sure I do the same thing with new people I meet

Cindy Melgund: well yes, honey , you should do that…peeps helped me, and Barbie in early days. That’s important to give something back.

Bunny Gracemount: I will. I promise

Dealing with Bitches

Once in a blue moon, and it is ALWAYS with women, you run into that nasty bitch who makes it a point to attack you. Ever notice this? It’s never men. Always a woman.

I ran into one last night.

I was minding my own business, just doing a little exploring, when I found what seemed to be an interesting place to go ice skating at some point with my baby. I got there on my cute pink motorcycle…

Anyway, I got on the pond and was simply walking across it to check out a building when out of nowhere the woman deliberately ran up to me and kicked me, karate-style. It wasn’t friendly or intended to be funny. It was deliberate and ugly. But I was determined to see the inside of this building. She did it again on the steps. Now normally, I’d say something. But I was in something of a hurry and she’s meaningless to me, not to mention obviously disturbed. She had a few “friends” around her.

I knew she’d say something because my lack of acknowledgment had to be driving her crazy. As I was leaving she says “Hey, those are some gigantic tits you got there, bitch.”

I really hadn’t intended to get into it, but something inside me said that this bully was in serious need of some pushback.

I walked toward her, gathering my thoughts and said, “Yeah, you like them don’t ya?”

She says, “I’m going to anally rape you”

So I responded “Great idea, your place or mine?”

Her friends started laughing…at her. This really set her off. She gets in my face and says “How about you suck my pussy?”

I said, “I would, but your dick would get in the way.”

She got all flustered, and probably was red-faced with anger as she sat at home, all alone and terrified that her own inadequacies would be exposed any second.

Finally she replied with the fabulous, and totally expected, gem of a comeback “Fuck you, bitch”

All too easy: “Absolutely, but not with you,” I said. “Try the horse barn down the street.”

By this point, her friends or whoever they were, were hooting and chuckling. My guess is that not many have stood up to this person. I got on my bike while she was cursing at me and said, “Hop on, Mr. Ed is getting anxious”…and drove off.

Did I care that I’d been attacked? Of course I did, and told my baby a little bit about it that night. But it felt awfully good turning the tables.

Getting harassed in the virtual world is pretty uncommon. But it does happen. Our natural tendency in RL is to shrink from bullies, because we’re afraid of getting hurt, especially physically. But in the virtual world, a bully can’t hurt you physically…only verbally, and emotionally, if you allow it.

Bullies thrive on showing off to friends. They need to prove that they aren’t who they really are, pitiful, inadequate losers riven with doubts about themselves. But consider this: once a bully attacks, they’ve exposed themselves to counter-attack. They don’t expect it, they think you’ll fold. But when you don’t fold they can be quickly turned into the person they really are: inarticulate, floundering, and stupid.

Most of the time, simply ignoring is sensible…who has time really to deal with jerks. Muting them is useful too. It’s less than satisfying, but at least it ends the situation.

But if you want to fight back, a good approach is turn whatever it is they’re sayng back on them. Find a weakness in their words. Take a few seconds to read what they just said and turn it back on them. They’ll get flummoxed and will resort to banal insults (“Fuck you!” see above for response)

Damage THEIR self-esteem for a change. A quick scan of their avi can be a gold mine. Leave THEM sputtering and searching for a comeback. Seriously, do you really CARE what they think?

Then nuke them.

The Face Light Trick & Skin Tinting

Skin tinting continues to bedevil most of us and for good reasons. It’s simply very, very hard for all but those who are very skilled in graphics tools, like Photoshop, to get what we REALLY want: an invisible connection of our implants to our Avi bodies.

Unless you use one of those very cheap skins with little or no shading, it’s just not going to happen. Even if you’re great at Photoshop, you STILL have to deal with the changing light in SL. What may look perfect in midday light, may not look so seamless in the evening or morning. You can get very, very close (See my series on Tinting) but in the end, you’ll see the seams and probably notice that your projections are not quite looking so well color matched.

There is a partial answer, one I ALWAYS use: face lights.

Yes, I know that you can totally destroy a scene and really anger people if you use face lights that are too intense and have too wide an effect. You don’t need to do that and you don’t need to spend money to get a great effect, one that will hide the major seams in your boobies.

First, what exactly ARE face lights and how do they work? I would STRONGLY advise that you read this post which explains how the illuminate, what to avoid, and best of all…how to make your own.

http://quiteoh.wordpress.com/2008/10/17/second-life-theory-and-correct-usage-of-face-lights/

I’d recommend attaching your face light to your chin or mouth, because as the above author notes, glasses often use the nose for an attachment point. The trouble with either of those places that your head moves independently of your body…and that means the light will move accordingly and will at times light up only part of the top seam on your boobies. The chest or spine are actually much better locations, but since the chest is where most of us attach our boobies (it’s the default location for Implant Nation), that’s out. The spine is a good alternative, but then that knocks out it’s use for other stuff, like jewelry or garment prims.

What’s a girl to do? Well, how about linking the face light directly to the boobies themselves? Stay tuned for more on this as I’m planning a tutorial on how to do that as well.

I personally find face lights (which you can buy or get for free), to be indispensable. My personal photo, which is on my “About Cindy” page and shown below, is an unretouched picture using a free face light from Alady. If you look really closely, yes you can see the delineation between my body and my boobies. But unless you get THAT close (no jokes please!) it’s pretty hard to see, in my biased opinion.

Poll: How Much A Part of Your Life is Being Big Booby?

Are you a 100% Big Booby girl, i.e., you never go anywhere with your implants? Or are you more of a part-time person? Take the poll and, if you have time, add a comment about your lifestyle choice. Remember: when you share information and insight, it’s good for ALL of us!

Going Huge: Why Do You Do It?

Updated….

I recently ran a poll here asking peeps to tell us all what their average breast size is. I was, to say the least, a bit surprised by the results.

At last count 56 48% said 3000 cc and over. That really is LARGE.

Normally, I go at about 2050 cc which I estimate to be about a size DDD or F cup size. In real life, that would be very noticeable on the street, but not otherworldly. Most of the dancers at my club, Miss Barbies, also tend to stay somewhere under 2100.

But SL isn’t the street, I realize that. And, I also realize that there are guys out there (and prolly chicas too) who really LOVE their babes to have Godzilla-size hooters.

I’m NOT being critical here. To each her own, and God bless ya. BUT, I’m super curious to know why you extremely large girls choose to go in that direction. Now, I’m completely discounting peeps who go super-duper-mega for show purposes. Again, I understand that, I even have some regular customers who totally insist on me going way past 3000. But that’s for a show, that’s not day-in, day-out.

So talk to me…and talk to your sisters. There is no judging here. I’m with you. But this is SO interesting…

Comment here…

Love you all.